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Mar. 19th, 2026 11:48 pm
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Name: reggie

Age: 36!



I mostly post about: whatever my brain latches onto... right now it's stranger things... billy hargrove is EVERYTHING to me...



My hobbies are: drawing, writing, making graphics, practicing spiritual abilities, learning languages. swedish is calling to me rn, lol.



My fandoms are: stranger things, joe keery, joseph quinn, dacre montgomery, fred hechinger, old-school anime/manga/doujinshi, the kray twins... real life and legend (2015) with tom hardy.



I'm looking to meet people who: understand the difference between fiction and reality. we are all adults here and the internet used to be for FUN. let's bring that back!



When I add people, my dealbreakers are: to be completely honest, if you hate billy hargrove, then do not add me. we will NOT get along. also, i am unlearning decades of religious trauma, so if you're overtly christian... we're not a good match. sorry. :(



My posting schedule tends to be: whenever i can! working a Real Job takes up a lot of my time, but i do read everything.



Before adding me, you should know: i am very gay and very trans, and will not tolerate any form of homophobia or transphobia. non-religious spiritual psychic. yes, i do feel energy and am clairaudient and clairvoyant. i ship RPF and incest and "problematic" pairings unapologetically. i believe in the old internet belief of Do Not Like, Do Not Read. absolute creative freedom forever.

Little Crabapple Tree!

Mar. 19th, 2026 08:38 pm
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Overslept and woke up at 8:30 AM. Got my groceries. Nice delivery guy. He liked the dogs and said that they must be having a great time due to the weather.

Oliver is in the cat tunnel upstairs, and Lily is batting at the moving lump. They make me smile.

Today is a zoo at work, and the person with whom I primarily work is off sick. So I'm scrambling.

I got Bella in with the aid of a Munchie Bone. Gracie is still outside.

Hmm. I think that I want some marigold seeds to plant with my tomatoes to combat pests.

I want a nap after work. Actually, I perked up so I didn't take one.

The little crabapple tree is really cute! I’ll post a picture of it. I have the root ball soaking in water and will plant it on Saturday. (Note to self: turn on outside water.) The spot where I wanted to plant it has electrical wires running through it, so I’ll need to move it over. Oh, and I want to get a water ring for the little tree to give it the best chance at growing.
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Got the pet gate up by Zara’s room, sort of. I don’t like how it fits. Oliver doesn’t like it either. But it’s up.

I came inside after trying to get the dogs in (they’re still outside), only to find that both Oliver and Lily had jumped into Zara’s room (and probably ate her food too). Sigh. I’ll have to feed her again and shut the door.

Now it’s dinner time for me. Then I’ll try to get the dogs in again. They come in more easily at night.

I read a BBC article about “dusking,” sitting outside and watching the sun set and dusk begin. That sounds like a good ritual to start.

The dogs are in and everyone's fed. I'm going to watch The Pitt and then go to sleep. I want to get up on time to shower because I have a vet appointment for Zara tomorrow.
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PSA:
I am reading and catching up on everyone's writings even if all I do is "like" or don't leave any feedback. It's been a crazier last-couple-days than expected. Haven't even gotten to unpack yet. But I do read everyone's posts when I wake up and before bed. Promise!!

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Dust Info

TL;DR the majority of our flooring was tile, and one way or another breaking up the tile generated dust.

As far as how it got all over everything or why there's so much of it:

The floors were installed a month ago, and Jameson has done little to no cleanup since then (not a criticism, just a fact.) The dust has had an entire month to spread around the whole house via HVAC, ceiling fans, or being tracked from room to room.

From what little I saw of the renovations, a jackhammer and a sledgehammer were used to break up the floor. They may have used other tools like circular saws that might have generated a lot of dust. But ultimately I was not present for the renovations and did not see what happened.

Although Jameson removed or relocated the furniture, and the cabinets and immovable objects were covered with plastic, there is dust inside many of the cabinets and on all of the flat surfaces. The dust is lightest in the kitchen and dining room, moderate in the guest bedroom, and heaviest in the two bathrooms. I'm sure this has somewhat to do with size of space (containment) and what was and was not covered/protected during floor removal.

Cement/tile dust is a cancerous material (silica dust) and is dangerous/damaging when inhaled. That is why I'm especially anxious about it, cleaning it up in a specific researched way, while wearing a mask.

All right, there it is...I hope that makes sense or helps fill out the picture.

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WEDNESDAY


Jameson was up at 7am to go get his MRI. I couldn't go back to sleep. Breakfast and scanning my zillion tax forms. I have nine W2s, three 1099s, and a bunch of misc other forms from doing things like redeeming old savings bonds last year. Whoever is handed my taxes will have their work cut out for them.

I finished up about the time Jameson got home, looking pale and shaky. This was not his first MRI, but last time he went in waist-first. This time he went in head-first, and that triggered a MASSIVE panic attack. They had to pull him out and try again with fewer neck restraints and a towel over his head so he could get through it. I hugged him (not too tightly because he was literally JUST in a confined space) and when I let him go he seemed close to tears :( He is not prone to panic attacks so this was especially scary for him. He said his body just reacted and there was nothing he could do to make it stop. As someone who suffered intense panic attacks for a full year, I completely understand what it feels like, how terrifying it is, and how little control you have to make it stop once it's started. But he got through it, somehow, and that's great because hopefully he'll have results that will reveal more about what's going on with his neck and arm.

Jameson took a few deep breaths and went to work while I set a tax appointment and then started Dust Battle with the guest bedroom. I chose to clean this room next because it’s where I practice trombone and do my tour packing. I want to play the trombone with minimal dust inhalation, AND I still need to unpack but don't want to do that where dust will get on my tour clothing, cooking supplies, in my suitcase, etc.

Jameson had sort-of wiped some parts, and you can see where he did that and what level of dust we're dealing with here. It is odd to me that there's so much dust in this room as it was not a part of the renovation. But I wasn't here so I don't know what happened.
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I put on a KN95 and did the same wet microfiber followed by dry microfiber tactic as used in the kitchen, starting at the tops of furniture and doors and light fixtures and working my way down to countertops and tables. Same dresser as above, after I'd finished:
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I took the quilt outside and shook it thoroughly, and when it was back on the bed I moved my suitcase, trombone, and other things from the floor onto the bed and vacuumed. Then I put the things back on the floor and wiped everything down again with the dry microfiber as new dust was settling from the vacuuming.

Lunch break with Jameson, and I should have practiced trombone but didn’t feel like it. Instead I wiped all of the windowsills (LOADED with all kinds of dust, not just from the floor reno) then emptied the kitchen island because plaster and dust had gotten in there. Here you can see some of the pieces of plaster and tile, as well as a fine coating of dust near the inner walls.
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I rinsed all of the Tupperware and dishes that were down there, wiped all of the appliances, wiped the shelves down, and put everything back.
Drew a smiley in the dust on the crock pot. Sometimes the dust was hard to see, but on black appliances or surfaces it's pretty obvious.
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Had meant to do the cup cupboard too but lost my steam for this. Instead I basic-dusted all of the furniture and surfaces in the living room and bedroom, as these were some of the least-dusty areas. Then I dry-swiffered the entire new floor with a microfiber cloth.

It was a little futile to Swiffer at this stage. Until I deep-clean the bathrooms (which are the dustiest/dirtiest) we will continue tracking debris and dust from the bathrooms throughout the house. I’ll definitely have to sweep again. But the feeling of stepping on plaster bits and grit all day has been annoying me, and it felt much better afterward.

We had dinner and watched TV together. Jameson did laundry and then I did mine, followed by a load with just the microfiber cloths and some towels that had been exposed to The Dust. I can't see dust on the towels but it must be there. Jameson had an overnight at Disney tonight. After he left I vacuumed and dusted the bedroom (but not the gigantic bookshelf in the bedroom, that will have to be a separate project.)

Overall I got a lot done today, but there is SO much more cleaning to do. I'll have to wipe the blades of ceiling fans, the tops of kitchen cabinets, the tops of doors, the baseboards. The bathrooms will need intense deep cleaning. The cups need to be rinsed still, and other kitchen cabinets probably need to be emptied and wiped. And then I'll have to wipe everything down AGAIN after knocking dust down from those high areas. But I've only been back for three days and so I think it's going as well as possible.

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THURSDAY


Jameson was up at 7:30am for Disney. I got up shortly after him for breakfast. Spent way too much time typing things out/venting, but felt better afterward and ready to move forward.

Dust Battle continued with the master bathroom. I should mention that after the new flooring was installed, the toilets had to be pulled out and re-installed to be level with the new floor (a $3,000 fix, paid for by me.) That probably generated extra dust and debris.

I started with removing everything from the counters, and either washing each individual item in the sink or wiping it down to get the film of dust off. I opened the medicine cabinet and did the same there, removing everything, wiping each thing down, wiping the shelves, and putting things back. Under the sink, I didn't take everything out because only the few items nearest the doors had dust, but did wipe the insides of the doors and the bottom of the cabinet.

Next I wiped the tops of all the doors, the fronts of the doors and cabinets, the tops of all light fixtures (had to bring in a stepladder for that,) and the blinds for the pool entrance door. The blinds were awful, lots of plaster and dust had been trapped in them. Here's some of the plaster (this isn't even half, most of the rest I caught in the microfiber cloths)
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Next the top of the standing shower, which was caked with fine white dust-paste. Again, this is a fraction of what was up there and it took multiple passes and washings of the microfiber cloth to get 90% of it.
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I wiped down the shower walls and shower head/handle, but did not scrub the shower as I consider that a separate chore from "cleaning the bathroom." I got behind the toilet to sweep up all the plaster back there, wipe the dust with wet microfiber, and then was finally able to do a "normal" cleaning of the bathroom albeit with two passes to wipe the toilet, once to collect dust and the second time to actually clean and disinfect. Cleaned the sink and counters with wet microfiber and then as normal. Swept the floor with a broom (wearing a mask,) then again with a dry microfiber, then again with a wet microfiber mop. Vacuumed the bath mats and put everything back.

I know there's no point of comparison but just trust me that this is significantly cleaner than it had been, and it was a huge relief to have gotten most of the gross dust out of there. I am looking forward to Jameson's reaction because he is always VERY appreciative of what I do around the house :)
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The bathroom took about 90 minutes (3x longer than usual.) I finished at lunch time and took a break to eat. Made myself practice bass for 20 minutes.

Before continuing Dust Battle I swept out the garage and wiped the tops of some picture frames and door frames, then it was on to the guest bathroom. This is the tiniest room and the dust is most condensed here. Here is the counter by the sink.I ran a finger through the dust on the left there so you could see the difference.
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The shower handle.
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Same process as the master bath: removing each little item, wiping it, wiping the insides of cabinets, tops of doors, shower walls, etc etc. There was a lot of plaster in the tub so I wet-swept that out. Wet microfiber, clean and disinfect, dry microfiber, wiping and mopping the floors. It was done faster than the master bath but I didn't time it.

After that I was VERY tired, but there was one last thing to do. Microfiber-swiffered all the new flooring, wet-microfiber-mopped all the new flooring, and vacuumed all of the carpet again (having knocked a bunch of dust down from on high today.)

With that, I have done the majority of MAJOR dust cleanup, and everything else will be single-projects (the shower, the bookshelf) or touch-up (light fixtures, windowsills, picture frames, etc.) And a week from today I'll check and see how much more dust has settled or been pushed out of the HVAC, and do a full (regular) cleaning again.

The house after all of my work on it. Not that you'd be able to tell a difference.
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The kitchen, which I don't think Jameson ever sent a good pic of after the floor had been installed.
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Though I was tired, I called an Uber to the grocery for ingredients for dinner tomorrow and to replace some cleaning supplies I'd used up. Would rather do that today and get it over with. Picked up premade sushi for Jameson and I, and he got home just a few minutes after me. We ate and chatted about our day, I showed him my work around the house and he was happy and grateful as predicted :) We spent the evening relaxing on the couch. He's still struggling with anxiety from the MRI (sometimes it can take days for a panic attack to let you go) and I was exhausted and actually sore from all the housework over the last several days. It was good to sit still and quietly together. 

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Friday: 
Tax appointment. I will owe a lot this year thanks to Epic Universe which was all 1099 work. Other than practicing and cooking us dinner, I have no plans. I'd like to take a break from cleaning since I've made huge progress. 

Saturday: Jameson wants to go to the new giant H-Mart and I am SO EXCITED!!!

Sunday: No plans but will probably do one project-clean like the bookshelf, and practice. 

Visiting past lives

Mar. 19th, 2026 03:42 pm
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I always forget how easy it is to get from here to Goodwill. It's actually a straight shot on the interstate and take the first exit. I didn't score big but I scored a little. I got everything on my list and not too much that I didn't want or need or regretted. I would have shopped more but, turns out, they have shut down their bathroom and I needed one so, I just paid and split. I guessed that the Uwajimaya bathroom which is a loooooong way from the parking lot would not be as nice as the Metropolitan Market bathroom so I headed on to the Met.

The last couple of years that I lived in the condo, Metropolitan Market did my cooking for me. It's a high end fancy assed grocery with a huge selection of very tasty prepared foods. I had favorites and that's what I bought today. All the favorites that I could freeze or save. They had everything on my list in stock. So yeah! (Oh, and their bathrooms are just lovely.)

I got home a little after noon and it was kind of a jolt. I'd spent the morning in my old life and now I was back in Timber Ridge. Kind of weird. I did the laundry and then prepped all the food. Sectioned it into appropriately sized servings and put it into the freezer. Except for the dinner option for tonight. Then I cleaned the kitchen and ran the dishwasher.

Now I'm back in my regular life.

Lately I've had trouble with Thursdays. I keep thinking they are Fridays. And today is no different. Bonny's leaving on Friday and I could not figure out what she was still doing here this afternoon. Doh.

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Mar. 19th, 2026 10:22 am
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Not much going on here. I had a lot of really bad dreams last night. At least that pain in my side has gone but I'm still worried about it coming right back when I get off these meds.

Shot # 9

Mar. 19th, 2026 08:39 am
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Since I intend to take these shots every Thursday from now until I die, it does seem kind of silly to track the number. I'm still on .25mg. And I have 3 shots left. On April 7, I have a video visit with my Doctor to check in and get a new prescription - for the same dosage or for more mg's. The latest news I can find says that there will be a trial of Medicare coverage of Wegovy in July. I'm not betting the ranch but it would be nice to save some $. But, since it's dependent on the government, I'm not holding my breath.

We only had 6 people for volleyball which usually is not enough for fun except for today, we had just the right 6 and it was great fun. There is often a tech question for me. Things the other players hear about and don't have anyone else to ask. Today's was "What does end to end encryption mean?" I love their questions and I love that they are interested enough to ask.

I spent most of yesterday out of sorts but today is a different day and my sorts are back. And I intend to keep them.

This morning I'm off to Goodwill. They don't open until 10 so it's too early to leave, plus, except for my robe, I'm naked so not really appropriate clothing. I might stop at Uwajimaya and/or Met Market on my way home. I have a list for Goodwill but mostly I hope I don't end up with a car full o' stuff that I don't have room for here. Seattle Goodwill is always a hit or a miss - rarely an in between.

Guess I'll go get dressed and organized and then hit the road.

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Athens, GA?

Mar. 18th, 2026 10:26 pm
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I just asked ChatGPT for places to retire that are affordable, college town, near water, and with mild winters. Wilmington, NC was near the top of the list, but hurricanes. Hmm. Athens, GA was at the top of the list, and Gainesville, FL was second. I have some traveling to do. Athens seems to have more condos than Champaign-Urbana does. To get to Athens, I’d need to fly to Atlanta and then hop a bus. About what I figured. It would be good to have an international airport nearby. Hmm, Gainesville is super cheap.

It’s cold (26F) and snowing. Ugh.

I asked Bella if I can pee in peace, and the answer is apparently “No”.

I woke up at 2:30 AM and couldn't fall back asleep for an hour. But I did get up on time and showered.

I received my crabapple tree for the back yard! I'll have to see if I can plant it or will need help.

I got Gracie in by grabbing her collar. Had lunch. I’m thinking that I’ll lie down after my last meeting because my stomach hurts. Slept until a little after 6.

Oliver keeps opening the door to Zara’s room to eat her food. I finally scooped him up and shut him in the bedroom. I’ve now seen how he opens Zara’s door, and he bumps it with his body. I’m going to put the gate up tonight.

I’m feeling shaky, so I’m making food. The dogs still don’t want to come in.

I have to remember to get the recycling out. Done. Go me. Submitted a grocery order. Watched The Pitt. Now I need to finish washing some clothes and go to bed.

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Mar. 18th, 2026 03:06 pm
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Had some cinnamon tea. Had some good phone conversations with my mom and L. Still taking the muscle relaxants, hoping the pain doesn't come back the second I go off them. I never did hear a word about the results of all those medical tests.

i lost myself in you

Mar. 18th, 2026 02:39 pm
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When Da Universe keeps pushing me down, the lyrics to this song are the only thing that'll drag me out of bed.

The tax Man payeth

Mar. 18th, 2026 08:37 am
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My federal tax refund arrived. Thank you, past me, for so generously over paying! Washington state has no state income tax as of right now so I'm all done for the year. Nice.

Today is the public Food and Beverage meeting. The blush is off the rose here. It's just old ladies bitching about the same shit over and over again. Half want a dining room dress code that makes them dress up for dinner and half do not and it will never happen so shut the fuck up. There are 3 women who do nothing but bitch about salt. The Food & Beverage director says they use a modest amount of salt in cooking. These three women was zero salt used (cause why have flavor?). So they bitch every month and the response is always the same. What is the grade of beef used? This question is asked and answered every month. In fact, all of the questions asked and answered every month are the same.

So, yeah, I'm looking forward to it. Ha!

I'd really like to make my Goodwill trip today and I could do both but tomorrow's better for Goodwill.

I'm just cranky for no reason. And Biggie needs attention.

On my way back from the pool this morning, I spied this hilarious camouflage. I don't know these people. They moved in about a year ago with a teeny tiny adorable puppy.


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Sick Day

Mar. 17th, 2026 10:30 pm
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Overslept because my alarm didn’t go off. Took the dogs out and it’s cold. We came in when Bella wanted to come in. I need to take a shower because I have a hair appointment, so I’ll be late for work. I emailed in sick to get more time. And my stomach is upset, so it’s not lying.

Got my ballot ready to drop off. Thank you, League of Women Voters' Web site.

I’m having my hair cut and conditioned. And my eyebrows waxed. I look much better. Dropped off my ballot. Now I'm at work. I emailed in sick because my stomach is upset. I ate, and it is not agreeing with me. Crawled back into bed. Gracie is fascinated by my ears.

Hmm. Travel and Living recommended Uruguay for retirement. It’s not expensive, has liberal politics, has good weather, and it’s safe. Something to check out. It would be a pain to get to Europe from there though.

Slept until 5:30 PM. The dogs don’t want to come in. Fed us all.

Transferred money to pay for my investment newsletter. I need to call Schwab to get my debit card sent to me.

Checking in on the election results. Hmm, the Champaign County Park District hires people for the season. That might be a good retirement job.

Got the garbage out. The goofball dogs are both trying to jump on my lap. They make me laugh.

Watched an episode of The Pitt. I'm hooked.
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Generally speaking, considering how much I travel (probably around 60 flights, drives, or bus rides per year), I've had incredibly good travel fortune *knocks on wood*

Certainly every year there are 1-2 major snafus, and several delays and inconveniences, but in the end I always do get where I'm going.

I am saying that out loud because it has been less than a year touring with BATB, and already we've had several..."trying" travel days. I want to remember to be appreciative that things have mostly gone smoothly.

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That said, I went to sleep around 11:30pm and was rudely awoken just a few minutes later by my phone screaming and the following alert
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....followed shortly by a tornado siren outside. Wheeeee.

Fortunately there was not an actual tornado in Louisville, but this is their alert system for watches as well as warnings. The siren continued for about 20 minutes, and stopped after the imminent threat was deemed to have passed. It took a long time to get back to sleep but I finally managed around 1am. My alarm went off at 3:30am...at which point I saw that my flight had been cancelled. Sigh.
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Hilariously, if I had booked an even earlier flight (5am takeoff!) I might have actually made it!!
American Airlines had auto-rebooked me on the next available flight: an overnight/redeye that would arrive around 1am on Tuesday. Umm, no. I searched flights frantically, but everything was of course either cancelled or astronomically priced, and only 3 flights would get me to Orlando today, and all of them had late night arrivals.

And so of course next I looked at rental cars. It would be an awfully long drive, but considering the flights would arrive at the same time it didn't really make a difference to me. ALL of the airport rental cars were sold out (not surprising, I'm sure there were a lot of cancellations) but there was a Hertz nearby that seemed to have some rentals. I made a booking for $400, which was the cheapest I could find for a one-way.

At that point I checked my email to see the rental confirmation and saw that Aaron (Company management) had sent flight rebooking options. They were the same ones I'd found, astronomically priced, and although Disney was willing to both pay for that AND extend my hotel room, I'd have to sit around for the whole day and then Uber to the airport, fly, Uber home, and still arrive later than if I'd driven. Therefore I sent Aaron my rental car findings and asked if Disney might cover it. He said yes. I was unable to get back to sleep after that, so spent the time submitting refund requests for my prepaid luggage and cancelling my Instacart order for today (I'll have the rental car through Tuesday morning so why not use it.)

At time of typing, I've finished breakfast and in a few minutes I'll Uber to the rental place to see if they actually do have cars available. If so, this travel day will be a 14-hour drive on 3ish hours of sleep.

But you know what? That's still way more sleep than most parents of newborns get!! BAM.

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MONDAY


They had THREE rental cars available and were way overbooked, but I was the first to show up and therefore I got a car. YAY! I let Aaron know, then hit the road. The sky looked very interesting. It was very windy, and although the storm system had passed Louisville I'd be driving right into it on the way to Orlando.
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The first part of the trip was fine. When I got to the Cumberland area of Tennessee, though, I-65 S was quite the winter wonderland. The wind made the snow blow directly AT the windshield, plus the highway wound through the mountains, up and down steep inclines.


Still, it is nothing I haven't driven before (compared to driving through the Rockies this is NOTHING) and I just went slowly and diligently along until the snow turned to slush, then rain. Stopped for gas or snacks or to pee as needed, and tried to go for as long as I could between stops. Hit the expected awful traffic in Atlanta, some construction traffic elsewhere, and there were one or two accidents. But overall it was a very smooth trip.

10-or-so hours later I was in Florida. Even if I hadn't seen the welcome sign, the change in the foliage is immediate. Swampy trees draped in Spanish moss, pines that look prehistoric, saw palms and tall palms and cranes that look like pterodactyls flying overhead. Ospreys carrying fish. I could easily imagine a dinosaur peeking out from among the trees along the highway.
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I finally reached home in the 13th hour (10pm.) I made REALLY good time all things considered. Jameson was just getting ready for bed when I walked in the door. I'd barely gotten any sleep and was bleary-eyed from staring at the road for 13 hours, but hugged him tightly and took time to marvel at the lovely new flooring! (And cringe at the absolutely awful coating of GREY DUST on EVERY SINGLE SURFACE. More on that later.) We went to bed pretty quickly.

As I was starting to drift off I was still getting notifications for the auto-rebooked flight that I hadn't taken: it was delayed twice, and had just landed in Charlotte at 11:30pm. Where the connecting flight was also delayed. Yeah, I made the right choice.

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TUESDAY


Sadly I could not catch up on sleep just yet. The rental car needed to be returned, but before that I was up at 6:45am to be at Publix right when it opened. I needed food for myself and ingredients for dinner for us. I don't have a car any more, remember? So it was now or never. That done, I slammed down breakfast as Jameson left for work, then fought rush hour traffic to the airport. Returned the rental and got an Uber back home.

And then...it was time to face The Dust.

The floors are beautiful...but literally every surface is coated in very fine, slightly sticky grey dust. And there are small pebbles of plaster or tile here and there. It's even gotten inside the cabinets, so it's on some of our dishes, clothing, appliances, etc. Not to mention on the tops of picture frames and on chairs and between keyboard buttons, and...

Just looking at it made me SO anxious and upset. It's impossible. We are going to be breathing and eating this dust for YEARS and there's absolutely nothing to do about it. But after a few deep breaths and thinking carefully about it, I accepted that I was just going to have to spend a little time, every single day for the next three weeks, fighting The Dust.

It's the same as practicing trombone. A little every day, and as long as you stick to it, relentless and gradual progress is made. Half as much dust is better than full dust; 1/4 as much dust will be better still. With that in mind and some desperate determination, I put on a KN95 and got to work. The kitchen was first because we need to be able to prepare food safely first and foremost (wtf has Jameson been eating?! The Dust, that's what :/ ) After researching online I had bought some microfiber cloths. I wiped each counter down with a wet microfiber, then a dry one to avoid kicking the dust into the air. I wiped or hand-washed every single bottle, cup, appliance, and piece of dishware on the counter. I wiped down all of the cabinet doors and inside the doors. Wiped each individual spice jar and the rack. Carefully wiped down the stove, my coffee pot, the toaster.

Ate a quick lunch then tackled the cupboard. Every single food item, jar, box of supplies was coated in The Dust. Starting at the top shelf, I removed and wiped every single thing using a Swiffer dry duster, then wiped the shelf down, then put everything back and proceeded to the next shelf down. Throwing away expired items as I went. Wiped and mopped the entire kitchen floor. Then wiped the kitchen chandelier, table, all of the chairs, placemats, etc.

By the time all of that was done it was about 2pm and time to start prepping dinner, a stew that would take 3 hours to simmer. I washed all of the dishes I'd be using and then cooked as normal. Got the stew bubbling on the stove, then got to work on the brown Irish soda bread. This isn't the sweet kind with raisins and caraway seeds; it's a rustic loaf that comes together like biscuit dough. A mix of wheat and white flour, buttermilk, egg, salt, baking soda, and butter. Smoosh it loosely together, bless it with a cross and poke it in each quarter to "let the faeries out." Bake for 45 minutes.
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A few minutes before Jameson got home I made mashed potatoes and took the lid off the stew. Jameson walked in just as I was finishing, took a deep whiff of the homemade food, and smiled :) He doesn't cook for himself much at all, and this is probably the first homemade meal he's had since I left for tour months ago. It turned out wonderfully. The stew was tender beef cubes with carrots, celery, onion, garlic, thyme, bacon, salt and pepper, Guinness, and a splash of Worcestershire. It was REALLY good, and we both used the hearty brown bread to sop up the rich broth. The potatoes were just a good blank canvas and texture contrast. 
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I cleaned up while Jameson gamed, then we watched baseball together on the new couch-thing (I can sit there too now! Nice!)

A very productive day. And, Happy St. Paddy's Day! 

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Wednesday:
Jameson has an MRI for his shoulder, and work. I will tackle the guest bedroom so I'm not breathing in loads of dust while practicing trombone, and I need to scan all of my tax documents. 

Thursday: Jameson will be working at Disney so I'll have the house to myself. Will tackle the master bath, and if there's time I'll dry-Swiffer and mop ALL of the new flooring too. 

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Mar. 17th, 2026 07:01 pm
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Movies: None. Really need to get on that AFI list!

Television/Streaming: the recent episodes of Taskmaster New Zealand. It's a fun group. Also a couple of episodes of Buffy, season 3: "Revelations" and "Lovers Walk." I'm not completely sold on Faith at this point; sometimes she annoys me. I'm happy Spike is back. Is he a dick? Yes. But I do enjoy him as a character.

Books: I read Sing Unburied Sing by Jessmyn Ward for our DEI book club at work. Ward has been on my list for a while, and I can see why her books have won awards. The writing was really good, and I thought the atmosphere of the place/time was well-done (rural Mississippi). There is a LOT to unpack here about family, and the impacts of racism, and poverty, and drugs, and there might be a little TOO much going on in the plot and that muddies things a bit. The book is told in mulitple points of view, and while that can be well-done, you have to make sure the voices are distinct enough. JoJo, the young boy in this story, sounds a lot like his mother, Leonie, and that was confusing. There were some good elements here, though, and I'm sure we'll have a lot to discuss at book club.

I did not finish The Sirens by Emilia Hart for my other book club. I got about 20% in before I could not read anymore. The motivations of the main character did not make any sense to me and she did not seem relatable at all. That doesn't always have to be the case, but also, if you are going to make some weird choices, you have to find a way to explain why the character would do those. (For example, the main character here is a journalism student and loves investigating things; yet, when confronted with a situation where asking some questions would absolutely be the thing to do, she just . . . doesn't. She stays put and cleans the apartment instead. The fuck)?

I'm currently reading An Offer from a Gentleman by Julia Quinn, as we just finished the Bridgerton season it's based on. They have changed some things and these books are ridiculous but I wanted a little bit of fluffy stuff in between other books.

Video Games: Playing Bendy and the Ink Machine. It's been occasionally frustrating when I get lost, haha. I love the art style, though. And the "cartoony horror" is not that bad, a few jumpscares of creepy things.

Listening to: Moving on with the Rolling Stone Top 500 albums, I listened to Black Flag's Damaged, number 487 on the list. This album was number 340 on the 2012 list. Rolling Stone blurb:
MCA refused to release this album, denouncing it as “immoral” and “anti-parent.” High praise, but Black Flag lived up to it, defining L.A. hardcore punk with Greg Ginn’s violent guitar and the pissed-off scream of Henry Rollins, especially on “TV Party” and “Rise Above,” which came with the timeless smash-the-glass salvo “We are tired of your abuse/Try to stop is but it’s no use.” Punks still listen to Damaged, and parents still hate it.

This is not really my style of music. Most of these songs blended into each other for me, but I did like "TV Party" and I can see why this album is a seminal work for this genre.

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Mar. 17th, 2026 11:05 am
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I want to go to my favorite Irish pub today but I can't because I'm on meds where I'm not supposed to have any alcohol. What I'm more upset about is I don't intend to miss my friend's party on Sunday but the buses are fucked up all over Oakland that day because of the damn marathon. I don't know how I'm supposed to get to the Bart station to get into SF to get to my friend's house. It's too far to walk with my arthritis. I talked to a few people who work for the bus company and they didn't know anything about it. Fucking jocks. Think the world revolves around them.

Tuesday and all the snow is gone

Mar. 17th, 2026 08:32 am
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It's house cleaner day!! And we need to put away the finished puzzle and start a new one. And I could use a small trip to Safeway or Trader Joe's or, actually, even Costco but the latter is probably a next week thing. I do have one Amazon return so I might do it + one of the other two this morning.

Nothing else much going on. Bonny is going to Palm whatever, CA for two weeks on Friday and she's all a dither with getting ready. Jim Across The Hall is getting more anxious more often but his care givers are, at the same time, getting better at taking care of him. Jim Down the Hall has gone on a road trip with his girl friend. And everyone else is pretty much the same as usual.

I am grateful for our weather which is now just normal - we'll be in 50's and 60's and the occasional 70 until the end of June. No tornadoes. Maybe a random wind storm but probably not. The evening news is all about the newsworthy weather across the country. I'm grateful to not be any part of that. I've actually been watching SKY news and some BBC (BBC news is more cumbersome to stream on my TV, hence, the Sky).

Plus I'm really grateful for no utility bills. Also no real estate tax. I just got my annual reminder that my real estate tax bill was ready and this year... NOT MY PROBLEM!!! Woot Woot! Not owning real estate is really wonderful.

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Mar. 16th, 2026 11:28 pm
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We got an inch and a half of rain yesterday, and the snow started in late evening. It continued through lunchtime today. I have no idea how much we got because the wind was so strong it was just drifting everywhere. We got out to shovel after supper, and did most of it. I finished around 10pm. Fortunately it was fairly light. Due to the rain, there was ice underneath, but also fortunately, because it was slushy before it froze, it was textured and not very slippery.

It's supposed to get below 10°F overnight. Then Wednesday it will be above freezing, and getting warmer every day after, so I don't expect it to last long.

Cindy and I were both supposed to go into our offices today, but there was no way I was going to spend 45 minutes shoveling, and then an extra long commute, and get there late and find nobody else in the office. My coworker felt the same way. He said it took his wife an hour to get to work, twice as long as usual.

Tired Day

Mar. 16th, 2026 10:28 pm
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Woke up at 8:15 AM. I’m not expecting a delivery, so I let Gracie out without a leash. Bella came in, but Gracie, typically, did not. Gracie came in at 9:30. It's cold out there and snowing.

Can't stop yawning. I'm looking forward to my nap. Napped.

Napped after work too.

Received the Will Harlow book. I think that I’ll take it to bed with me along with tape flags to pick out exercises.

Lily is chowing down on her food. Good.

The dogs came in quickly because it's cold out. Fed us all.

Watched an episode of The Pitt.

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Mar. 16th, 2026 12:14 pm
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I'm cooking my lunch right now, later this afternoon I'm going to get a few groceries. I also have to take out the garbage.

A dream of eternal sunsets

Mar. 16th, 2026 11:45 am
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I can hardly wait to get up and out of bed so I can eat some bacon and eggs and go back to bed.
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