Thinking it so

Oct. 26th, 2026 07:57 am
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This morning, while swimming, I was reviewing life issues when it dawned on me that I have not received anything from my new Advantage Plan insurer. Well, digitally, I have and I did expressly request all digital communications but they promised to send me a physical card. I only have 9 weeks before I need it. :) BUT, mainly, I don't want it to slip through the cracks.

Then I come home and log into email and see the one from the post office that lists any postal mail I will get today. THREE pieces of mail from Devoted🎶. I'm guessing one with the card. One telling me they sent the card and probably the third one tells me I signed up for digital communications. In any event, I can move that off the list.

Joan, who lives next door, is 93 and fairly frail and really annoying. She is a nosy busy body who never ever ever stops talking. She knows everything and will tell you. And she's a chronic complainer. Yesterday, Bonny and I were puzzling when she rode by (in her electric chair) and asked if one of us could come replace the battery in her scale. So when we finished puzzling, I went in to swap out the battery. And she just prattled on and on and on and finally got around to complaining about John's care givers. I looked at her and allowed as how that shouldn't be an issue any more since she (the giver) was no longer needed. "Oh, said Joan, did they swap people again??" "No, Joan, John died yesterday." "He did???!!!!" Fuck, we forgot to tell Joan. I ran into Bonny when I left Joan's and told her Fuck, we forgot to tell Joan. We both got a bit of a giggle because Joan is such a know it all and for once, on this - a big ticket item for a 93 year old - she didn't know. We both thought she was there in the elbow when Noelle told us all. So then we made sure everyone else on the hallway knew. Drama. Drama.

I did spend some quality time with my glove compartment yesterday. Cleaned it out, organized the essentials and rehooked up EchoAuto.

Today is mostly usual - nothing big going on that I know about... yet.
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This post covers the weekend.

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Sidenote for LJ people:
Not sure if this will help anyone but I've noticed if I open just ONE tab of LJ, it is far more likely to actually load and work than if I have multiple tabs open. Opening more than two LJ tabs seems to cause the site to not to load at all on any of them (at least for me.) Good luck out there.

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FRIDAY


Awake too early, but that's ok, I got to wish Jameson a good morning in real time :)

Apple Watch knows I'm in a high elevation place, and adjusts it's oxygen monitor accordingly (O2 is naturally a little lower than usual at high elevations for most ppl.) Cool tech.
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Today I felt pretty tired, probably because I walked around 5 miles yesterday between meeting my sister for lunch and back and forth to/from the theatre. I decided to take it easy today. Friday is usually my Slug-Around Day anyway.

Finally finished Vancouver Foodie Finds and started on Boise. Finished up my birthday shopping for Jameson and got some ideas for him for Christmas. Bought a few cheap Halloween decorations to give to my bandmates. Gritted my teeth, cringed, and paid off my full credit card bill ($$$$) which pretty much knocks out all of the travel, housing, food, etc from my brother's wedding. It hurts my bank account, but now I can try to continue the rest of the year with a clean slate and try to financially recover (what a hilarious thing to say right before the holiday season)

And Jameson voted!
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It looked sunny and nice outside, but I just could not muster up the interest or energy. Frankly, I felt a bit mopey after all of the messing around with the O'Malley trombone again. I really DID want it to be a good fit for me right out of the box. The fact that my temporary "solution" is to only play half the instrument at a time...while I'm glad it works, it also frustrates me even more knowing that I have to do more work and spend more money to get the playing experience that I want.

But in other news, I have a lovely clean hotel room and lots of nice snacks. Anime to watch, books to read. A wonderful boyfriend to chat with. And there's SO MUCH going on here in Denver! We have started Equity Fights AIDS fundraising, and there's a mental health seminar that we're all invited to (I've gone to all of them so far and want to attend this one too.) Halloween is coming up, we're having a costume contest and I'll get to be a judge for that!! And there's the orchestra talkback tomorrow, and a Broadway Serves opportunity next week. Lots to look forward to.

Finally showtime rolled around. Once again things were "acceptable" with the O'Malley/Bach hybrid. Nothing else to report. I dug my black peacoat out of my trunk because a cold front is moving through and I'm a wuss when temps fall below 68°F (20°C). And I brought the leadpipe test kit back to the hotel...if none of them make a big difference there's no point changing mine, so I'll send them back on Monday. And I bought a whole-company-signed BATB program for my stepsister for when she comes to the show (sssssh it's a surprise!)

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SATURDAY


Up at 6:30am to do laundry. When that was done, breakfast and fighting LJ to be able to post, making overnight oats for tomorrow, and packing a dinner to bring to the theatre because the orchestra was doing a talkback between shows and I expected that would take our 'tween shows break. A quick walk to Target for extra protein and berries (and yes, a small bag of candy corn because it's that time of year!) And back to the hotel to eat lunch and dress for work.

The matinee was good though I didn't play my best. Since I am forcing myself to play the O'Malley/Bach hybrid, every show consists of me gaslighting myself with "This is fine!" and "It's not so bad!" but as briefly mentioned in my last post, after 28 years of tromboning I KNOW when something is not right, and no amount of self-torture is going to miraculously change things. But I suppose this is being able to say "I tried" before I show up in Chicago demanding a fix. In other words, yes, if I put the Bach slide on the O'Malley "the notes come out", but it is still difficult to play compared to my Bach. I am also taking into account the elevation and dryness here, which make everything more difficult to play. But still. I'm frustrated.

After the matinee the whole orchestra tromped into the house to meet a group of students from a Colorado school. They had driven THREE HOURS to see our show!! With that in mind I certainly gave them my full attention!! There were perhaps 30 late-middle-to-early-high-school-aged kids, and unfortunately no brass players among them...it was all string musicians and/or theatre kids. But they had great questions such as "How long have you played your instruments?" and "How did you get this gig?" and "What do you do when a mistake happens?" I wanted to laugh at that last one as there are MANY mistakes in EVERY show, and we just hide it well and that's the real answer to that question ;D

DAR (MD), Gary (drums), and Tim (trumpet) had lots of anecdotes, advice, and stories as they've all been professional musicians for 50 or more years. The rest of us chimed in occasionally. My contributions were when someone asked how we got this gig; that question evolved into basic advice for getting gigs like ours, at which point I added, "Always express interest in something that you want to do! Make sure the people around you KNOW that you want to play that concert or show. That way when an opportunity does present, they will have your name in their minds (and hopefully your portfolio in their hands as well.)" My second contribution was when they asked at the end of the talkback, "Do you have any general advice for these young musicians?" Connor (Key 1) gave the great advice to "be a team player" when you're in an ensemble, to blend well with your section and be a musician that people want to call back again and again. To that I added, "Absolutely what Connor said, but also, don't give up on or bury that part of your playing that makes you stand out or that makes your music uniquely YOU. Blending with the ensemble is important, but that uniqueness about yourself and your music can also open doors and opportunities for you." I hope that was good advice. We took a group pic with the kids before they had to leave, and I'm sure I'll share that with you when it's available.

We'd been told the talkback would be 15 minutes, but not surprisingly it took closer to 30 minutes before we cleared the theatre, got the kids settled, and then answered questions for longer than planned, lol. I'd packed dinner and made plans to wash my trombone slides during the break between shows. That worked out well for me as the green room here has a big sink with hot water. The evening show went better than the matinee playing-wise for me.

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SUNDAY


Woke up at 5:30am raging out in my head over the trombone situation. It's great that I can technically "play it" now, but playing it is also causing me so much frustration that I'm seriously considering flying to Chicago next Monday to get this sorted out. That may seem like a crazy thing to do, but it's either that or not be able to address the issue at all until February. Four months of essentially not playing it at all and not working toward a fix either, which I'm not sure if I can stand. I'll have to decide what to do, quickly. ARGH.

Otherwise it was a good and chill morning. Breakfast, chatting with Jameson, packing little snacks for the theatre, and eventually getting dressed and heading over there. Matinee show was a little wonky because Maurice's Invention was acting up again (that thing! Always causing trouble!) but otherwise the show itself was good. I was again frustrated with the O'Malley/Bach, and when the show was over I switched it back to the full Bach but kept the O'Malley bell in the pit so that I have the option to switch to it for some numbers. I want to feel the differences and give it as fair an evaluation as I can.

Back at the hotel, a quick dinner of rice, smoked fish, zucchini and walnuts before tromping back. Evening show was fine but I felt extra-tired. Not surprising as it's been my first week in Denver/at high altitude, I've probably been working harder to try and sound the same as usual all week despite the elevation, plus extra practice on the O'Malley and switching the horns around the whole time. Phew, I will appreciate that day off. Still have NO IDEA if I should fly to Chicago or not next Monday to address this trombone issue. Guess I'll have to consult with the shop, get more info, and see if it'll be worthwhile or if I should just wait until months-from-now. 

In closing, enjoy these Beauty and the Beast wall tags! There are many wall tags backstage here and these are the three BATB ones that I could find, in order from 1997, 2012, and 2016 (the 2012 was a NETworks tour, not Disney. NETworks purchased the rights to tour the show that year.)
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Monday:
Golden Day! No plans, I need to save money. 

Tuesday: We have an online mental health seminar in the afternoon, and one evening show, otherwise no plans. Hopefully I'll have decided what to do about the trombone.

Upset Stomach Day

Oct. 25th, 2026 10:48 pm
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Oliver’s pretty smart. I’ve trained him to let Zara and Lily eat without him hassling them, and he can have the leftovers when they walk away. That’s kind of a complex concept for a cat.

Finally remembered to renew my car registration. Also tried to get a duplicate title, only to find that the bank is on it as lien holder even though I paid it off years ago. Need to call the bank.

My stomach is upset. I need to finish feeding the fur faces (done) and then lie down.

Had a nice nap. Oliver is on my lap, purring. He wants me to feed him, but I told him that it was too early.

I’m trying to figure out what to do. My stomach is still a little upset, but I need to take a shower and do some work for work. I’ll eat lunch and see. I’m knocking off my language learning tasks.

Okay. I’ve decided to lie down and do two hours of work tonight and two hours tomorrow.

Opened some packages and found my French verbs book. I forgot to order pads of paper (now done), but I can use a notebook that I have. Or do my exercises online.

I have a taste for Skinny Cow Ice Cream Sandwiches, but the local grocery store doesn’t have them. Oh well. I don’t feel like the usual food. Ordered them plus some Munchie Bones for the dogs from Walmart. The ice cream sandwich was good.

I’m trying a Korean moisturizer that absorbs into your skin. I haven’t been using it long enough to see a difference.

I just want to go to bed. I’ll make up work time tomorrow.

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Oct. 25th, 2026 01:32 pm
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Had some PG tips this morning, went out and got some groceries and voted. I realized I can vote by mail instead of having to go to the drop box in some neighborhood I don't know my way around at all so I just did that.

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Oct. 25th, 2026 07:35 am
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I have 8 minutes and then I need to get the clean laundry out of the machine and put it all away before it wrinkles. But, no worries, I'll be back.

Biggie is really into mischief this morning. He attacked my sweater in the closet. He pulled the bath towel off the wrack. He pushed all the stuff off the shelf under the coffee table. He's trying to send me a message. I'm getting it loud and clear. I do hope he's now tired himself out.

I have two new knitting projects started. Ooops 8 mins are up. BRB

Ok. I struck a deal with Biggie. If he would let me have the clothes that needed to not wrinkle, I'd let him have a nice, warm pile of underwear and pj's that can wrinkle all he wants. Win win. Everything except his pile is now put away.

I organized a bunch of non-yarn knitting and crochet stuff yesterday and pulled out an old label printer to label a bunch of little drawers. I bought this cheap, no longer made, label maker in 2021 and used it to print a bunch of stuff then and have not used it since. So many miracles happened. 1. I found it. 2. I found the extra rolls of labels. 3. I found the phone app that runs it and 4. - this is the biggie - the battery was still charged!!! It had enough juice in it to print out a bunch of labels over about 2 hours. Exactly what I needed. Amazing.

Oh back to my new projects. One is a vest out of giant yarn on size 11 needles. It works up very quickly which is good because it kills my elbow and fingers. But the yarn is nice and soft and the vest will be good to have.

And then I also decided to make a pair of gloves. I figured out how to make them so I can pop out my pointer finger and thumb when I need to operate the phone. And I can use the delicious merino wool yarn that I don't really have enough of to do much else. But this yarn is tiny and the needle size is 2.

The contrast between the two projects is ridiculous. But, the gloves won't hurt my elbows.

Today I'd like to go down to the car and pull all the shit out of the glove box and toss it, bring it up here, or sort it so that I can get to what I need when I open it while driving.

I am enjoying how much Milwaukee is enjoying the World Series. I actually watched last night's game. Next up isn't until tomorrow in Florida so that should put a spin on the whole thing.

Yesterday, in elbow coffee, we were all sitting around chatting when Noelle got up and left. She did not go towards her apartment and it was weird that she would leave her husband there alone. David is very frail and only about 1/4th with it but does love to sit and listen to us all chatter on. Anyway Noelle never came back. David's daughter, who comes for lunch on Saturdays, turned up and took him out to lunch. Finally while we were putting stuff away, Noelle appeared. Apparently the care worker in John and Hazel's apartment had popped her head out and caught Noelle's eye and motioned for her to come. John had finally died. Hazel has a hard road ahead. They were married for more than 65 years. She's never lived alone and she cannot see except a tiny pinhole even with a very strong magnifying glass. She has no telephone she can use. Fortunately, she has a son who lives nearby and can make decisions. But, it's not going to be easy for her.

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Oct. 25th, 2026 12:04 pm
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Gracie's Big Adventure

Oct. 24th, 2026 11:10 pm
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Woke up at 11 AM. Worked through my morning routine and fed myself and the fur kids. It’s good to see Zara hoover up every last scrap of her food.

Nap time. Dog wrestling time. Bella actually told Gracie “Enough!” I was surprised.

Did an Italian lesson on Pomospeak. It gets you speaking right away, which is good.

Had a nice nap. The dogs wanted to keep sleeping.

Did a French lesson on Pomospeak. It’s leading me into a grammar exercise. My plan is to do Pomospeak and flash cards during the week, and add grammar exercises on the weekends.

It’s getting dark earlier, steaming full speed ahead towards the shortest day of the year. Apparently, Daylight Saving Time ends next weekend.

I can’t find my vote-by-mail ballot. If I don’t find it this weekend, I’ll need to vote early provisionally. I remember getting it though. What did I do with it?

Interesting. My meals are starting to seem too large for me.

Aww. I bought food upstairs for Lily, and she ignored it to love me up instead. Now she’s eating.

I’m abandoning Turkish for now because it’s too hard to do along with other languages, and started German.

Oy. Someone left the front gate open a crack, and I missed it, but Gracie got out. I ran inside and grabbed a leash and went back out. Then I was following Gracie. She never went really far from me but wouldn’t let me close enough to grab her. Did I mention that I was still in my pajamas? Someone in a car saw Gracie and stopped. A young woman got out of the car to help me chase Gracie, and the guy in the car was following. The young woman saw Gracie between two cars in a driveway, and we went over there quickly. Gracie hid behind a couple of garbage cans. I positioned myself at one end of the garbage cans and the young woman at the other. I almost got her, but not quite. The young woman grabbed her and held her while I put a leash on her. The man and young woman decided to drive us back to my place so that Gracie wouldn’t pull the leash out of my hand or something. I thanked the young woman and the man profusely and got Gracie in the yard. Whew.

I need to review flashcards, open some packages, feed the fur kids their late-night snack, and crash.

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Oct. 24th, 2026 02:29 pm
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I'm tired now but I had a lot of fun earlier today, they did this thing that they always do in my neighborhood the Saturday before Halloween where they close off part of the street to traffic and people wear costumes and play music and give out candy, etc. I really enjoy it except some people were dicks about only giving candy to little kids. Halloween is for everybody!

i never noticed how lost i was

Oct. 24th, 2026 02:35 pm
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Another entry in Great Mustaches of the 1970's. Thalmus Rasulala, whom I have had the pleasure of meeting twice. His wife was a local newscaster!

Saturday

Oct. 24th, 2026 07:51 am
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Yesterday turned out to be a really nothing day and it was really nice. We are in between puzzles so I didn't even really see anyone and got caught up on some good TV and good knitting.

Today is elbow coffee so I'll get all the news and then some. Then I will have a biscillion packages to pick up from Amazon. They fucked up several deliveries this week so everything is coming in today. I hope. And I need to stop by one or the other of the grocery stores and pick up some grapes. The grapes we are getting right now are huge and so sweet. I'm a little obsessed and close to running out.

I should do a load of laundry and might or might not. Gotta save some treats for tomorrow.

OH! I just noticed there is a layer of frost on the roof across the way - a wing of this building. First time I've seen that for a while. Nice.

Nothing else to report and litter box to scoop. Stay tuned.

Throwing a Wig at Bach

Oct. 23rd, 2026 10:32 pm
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I was looking at sandwiches for lunch, and I found a Tuscan Chicken wrap that sounded good. (I was also eyeing a pastrami sandwich.) I want to wait until next weekend to make lunches though. I want to ease into food prep. Oooh, a French Onion Meatball sub.

I bought emergency blankets and hand warmers in case our power goes out this winter.

Overslept a little, but nothing like yesterday. Someone knocked down my trackball, and it rolled…somewhere.

Well, that was weird. I logged onto Walmart’s app, and it said that my order was being delivered early. Eventually, it said that it was delivered, but I went outside, and no groceries. I logged onto Walmart’s app again to say that the order was missing, and it said that my order was in the process of being delivered. Eventually, it was delivered. I heated up blueberry protein pancakes somewhere in the middle, and they were good.

My knee is bothering me. Not the bad one–the other one. I can’t wait to get the weight off of my knees.

Nap time. Noisy dog wrestling time. Gracie is all about the sound effects. She got a little carried away, so I had to say, “Hey!”

Way overslept my nap. Sigh. I’ll need to work some this weekend.

Oh man. I had my usual singing lesson, and we worked on the Bach piece. Forget the German, the singing was really hard, even for my teacher. She was wondering how the choir could do it. I asked her if she knew the story of Bach throwing his wig at the musicians, and I said that I want to throw a wig at Bach!

Urgh. I’m either having an IBS flare or I’m coming down with something. My face is warm, but my body feels ice-cold.

Fed myself and the fur faces. I want to go to bed soon, and I can sleep in!

shabooh shabbah

Oct. 23rd, 2026 03:48 pm
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A couple of McNuggets from the last couple days—

1-A happy birthday to Maxwell, Your Favorite Mustached Black Cat. She celebrated number four on Monday.
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2-We went to early vote today. Erica looked at the back of our voting registrations and that’s where we went. Unfortunately that site was for the November 3 election not early voting. Whoops. Gonna try again this weekend.

3-There’s a brand around these parts called Little Debbie. They make snack foods. They have already begun setting up their Christmas displays. I sent them an email explaining exactly what I thought of this process. Trying to capitalize on the holidays before Halloween. I doubt they will write me back. But I do have one quick message for Little Debbie....
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4-We had a surprise birthday party for Erica on Monday. As she walked in the crowd began to sing Happy Birthday. It brought her his tears. It was absolutely beautiful. She is so popular around here while people struggle to remember my name. That makes me happy because she has lived in a shell for so long. She has finally come out of it and is able to be herself. That’s such a beautiful thing.

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Oct. 23rd, 2026 11:48 am
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The inspection people left me alone which is what I wanted. It was a real pain in the butt going to get groceries in the rain with no car afterwards though. My legs hurt so bad I didn't get much sleep last night despite being very tired and taking painkillers. I wish I didn't have arthritis.

More than one way to skin...

Oct. 23rd, 2026 10:09 am
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I asked Gemini how to get my amazon orders out of the SHOP app and I got a string of options. NONE of them would have gotten me what I wanted. So I went to Muse. Muse was on it like white on rice. Now I never have to go into that stupid SHOP app again. Nice.

Ideal

Oct. 23rd, 2026 07:31 am
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Yesterday I stumbled over a website that said the ideal weight for older women is more than for younger so I dug in. The ideal weight for me - female, over 65, 5'4" - is 145-175. This morning I weighed 182. I can see you, Ideal Weight! As has been the case now for a few months, I'm totally happy with losing more pounds and totally happy with staying where I am. I put on a shirt this morning that fit last time I wore it but hung kind of strangely. This morning, it hangs perfectly and fits perfectly. A win in my book.

One of the things I hoped would get fixed is my leg ache. Sometimes - usually shopping like at the grocery or dollar store - my right leg aches like a motherfucker. This has not changed. But I sure with it would.

One things that has changed - no clue what, if anything, it's related to is that my personal temperature gauge. I went through menopause a hundred years ago. I did not have the menopause you hear about. Only two things happened. My periods stopped and I got hot. Not hot flashes. Just a kind of global warmth. When everyone else in the room was shivering, I was taking off my sweater. For years and years and years. Until this year. In the past month/6 weeks, I've felt deliciously could. I've been able to wear layers and it's wonderful. I even ordered some gloves from Amazon that will be here tomorrow because a couple of times when I've gone out, my hands got really cold. It's been a quarter of a century since my hands were cold. I may bitch about it later but I'm loving it now.

Biggie has been on kitty anti depressants for several years now and I think it's time to stop. I have a 60 day supply and I'm going to change from every day to every other day. I skipped yesterday. And I let him out. I went down to puzzle in the morning and left the door ajar. He soon joined me. And wandered around. I could see him in the hallway from my puzzle chair. He went to every single door and sniffed around. A couple of the doors were ajar so he could have gone right in but he didn't. After a while, he went back home. He was very well behaved and so earned another excursion. Not today. We finished the puzzle and won't start another until Saturday afternoon. Julio stayed put.

I have ordered some stuff from small businesses recently and I just hate that they all use Shop. Shop has no website so you have to use the phone app and they add all my Amazon purchases so it's impossible to track the purchases I want to track. Plus, I just don't feel like I can trust them if there is an issue. It is really annoying and the only way to find out/avoid it is to click on Order. Only then is the evil revealed. So I place an order and if Shop comes up, I just cancel unless it's something I really really really really want and can't get elsewhere. Annoying. Or maybe I should just quit ordering shit.

It's a rainy day here - Seattle rain meaning really just moist. I have packages to pick up later and that's about it for today's agenda.

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Oct. 23rd, 2026 04:56 pm
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WEDNESDAY


Had stress dreams and was wide awake at 5:30am (body thinks that's 7:30am right now.) Got 6 hours of sleep and Apple Watch says that's a "high" sleep score, whereas 7.5 hours yesterday was just "OK"? How is 90 more minutes of sleep scoring less?? I finally looked it up and "sleep scores" are a points system. 50 points for duration, 30 points for consistency with bedtime, and 20 points for awake periods. I think the consistency category is the problem. The watch "yelled" at me for making the good life choice to go to bed early and get more sleep, just because it was "inconsistent". I think that algorithm needs improvement. But what do I know.

Anyway, woke up kinda excited because my leadpipes were supposed to come in today! Meanwhile, breakfast and catching up with Jameson. His in-house Disney band, Stage 71, had it's very first gig last night as a disco-themed ensemble. There were some stressful moments due to the tech side of things not being up to snuff--he had texted me about them last night in the heat of the moment and it sounded like someone (not him) is going to be in trouble for what happened--but once things got going and the band was performing, the rest went wonderfully. There were lots of Disney upper management there who absolutely loved the band and congratulated Jameson on putting it together. But overall he had a very stressful day between getting an epidural in the morning and then dealing with those tech issues right before his new band was about to perform! I'm glad that things worked out, but the band has another disco set tonight and if the same issues are present, heads are gonna roll.

Aaanyway. Worked on Foodie Finds, walked to Target for pumpkin spice K-cups, finalized lunch plans with my sister for tomorrow. On the way back from Target I saw that the leadpipes had been delivered! Yay!
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(photo courtesy O'Malley Brass because lighting in my hotel room is so bad)

I ate a quick lunch and ran to the theatre to try them out. There are five, and of those two make a small improvement...but honestly not much, not as much as I was hoping. I spent a solid hour playing them and trying all different things, but I am still having the same problem with too much backpressure (aka resistance) in the lower and higher range of the instrument. I am disappointed...but there MUST be things we can do to get the playing feel and consistency that I want. At this point I might need to show up at their shop in person...but after this city, the next-earliest opportunity for that won't be until February. Am I supposed to drag this trombone across the country and not play it in the meantime?? Argh.

On the walk back to the hotel I sent an audio message to Miles (O'Malley Brass owner) to thank him for helping me thus far and to describe what I'm experiencing. I wanted to make him aware of my frustration, but also brainstorm with him about things we can try before I go to Canada.

Back at the hotel, a little snack and rest. Jonah (my brother who just got married) sent some of the professional wedding photos!
First, the happy couple: my brother Jonah and his wife Danielle. It may be a bit hard to tell but his suit is dark green and the tie is brown.
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The groomsmen and Jonah. I love the off-white(?) color of the mens' jackets with the fall background, brown ties, and Jonah's dark green suit.
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Bridesmaids with the bride. LOVE the pop of color from our bouquets. The dark brown is so classy. And you can see that we each ended up with a different cut of dress! Not planned!
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Bride and groom center, my sisters and myself left, my sister Kate's husband Pat (in the cream suit) and Jameson in the grey on the right (Jameson had no idea he'd be asked to be in any photos and had to run over haha)
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More photos to come of course :)

I spent the rest of the evening racking my brains about what I should do re: the new trombone. I could fly to Chicago on Monday ($$$) that would be rather rushed but it could be done with a quick turnaround either same-day or Tuesday morning. I could wait one week until Nov 2 (the next Golden Monday.) This would give me more time to play the O'Malley and narrow down what leadpipes are preferable, but the cost of the flight is still $$$ and I'd have to literally fly there and back same-day because I have a morning event on Tuesday. The third option would be Nov 30 when we are returning from Canada; instead of flying to Boise with the tour I could fly to Chicago. Problem with that is I have already taken a buyout and bought my own flight, and the flight change options are all $$$ more and 8+ hours longer. And if I can't do any of these three dates, the next opportunity won't be until February. Honestly, none of these seemed like a good option.

The evening show was good, and Ryu, our former violinist, was in the audience!! It was so great to see her! She sat at the sound board and was able to finally see the show for the first time, lol. Afterward she came down to the pit to congratulate us on a job well done. I think people went out for drinks with her afterward but I couldn't bring myself to do it (not my vibe + very money-stressed right now.) I hope she had an awesome time :)

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THURSDAY


Normal morning. It was payday and my pay was low, I assume because part of it was paid to my sub, but the fact that I get any money at all when I didn't work for a week is excellent.

Breakfast, and finally booking myself an Airbnb for Salt Lake City. The company choice is close to the theatre but somewhat lacking in amenities, and I just felt like I could do better for a 2-week sit. I asked DAR if I could play the new trombone in the show starting today and he said yes. I feel that I need to be more open to adjusting to it, but also don't want to be gaslighting myself into trying to "make it work". If I play it all weekend (six shows) I'll get a better feel for it and perhaps learn some things.

For lunch I met my stepsister Kayle at Watercourse Foods. I've been here before with my friend Bobby and remembered having a great experience. Fully vegan menu and some really creative dishes. We got started with the vegan charcuterie and enjoyed trying all the different little bites as we caught up with each other.
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Kayle's entree was the chik'n Caesar wrap, which was GIGANTIC and featured crispy fried tempeh chik'n. She let me have a bite. Fresh and crunchy!
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Mine was the breakfast platter: zucchini carrot biscuit in gravy, sweet potato tots, seitan "bacon", and tofu scramble. The biscuit was the best, soft and flavorful with that delicious peppery gravy.
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While the food was good, I was sad to realize that things have gone down here a bit. The menu is much more limited than it used to be; most of the sandwiches and entrees that I remember are gone, replaced with simple breakfast dishes. The charcuterie used to come with fresh fruit, pickled veggies, and more types of "meat", and clearly that's not the case any more. It was still very good, just not what it used to be. Sign of the times. But we enjoyed all of it, and the brief time we had together. Kayle's kids are in school now and she had only an hour to spare with me before going to pick them up. I'm going to see the whole family on one of the golden days, and am looking forward to that :)

From there I walked to the theatre because while we were eating, O'Malley Brass/Miles had messaged me back and asked, "Have you tried swapping your bell section with our slide, and vice versa?" OMG! Why hadn't I thought to do that?? It is very common for trombonists to swap out just the slide or just the bell section, to try new combinations and see what might be a good fit. In this case, playing the O'Malley slide/bell section with the slide/bell of my old trombone would help me narrow down whether my backpressure issue is coming from the bell, or the slide. Duh!

I spent another solid hour swapping those parts back and forth, and the good news is that when I put the O'Malley bell with the Bach slide there was an immediate difference. The horn opened up right away and I had no issue hitting the notes that I wanted without excessive backpressure. And when I tried the Bach bell section with the O'Malley slide, the Bach felt more confined than usual...not as bad as the complete-O'Malley, but a definite increase in backpressure. I went back and forth many times and also took audio recordings and listened back to make SURE that I wasn't imagining it or sabotaging myself. Based on this experiment, I'm like 80% sure that my issue has something to do with the O'Malley slide, possibly the difference in distribution of weight. If the O'Malley slide is heavier (it feels a bit heavier) or if the weight is centered in a different spot than what I'm used to, it could be causing my embouchure to shift subtly without my knowledge.

New plan. Tonight I'm going to play the O'Malley bell section with my Bach slide. If that goes well--if all of my notes come out without the horn fighting me--I'll continue to play that mix for all five weekend shows. Then next week on Tuesday and Wednesday, I'll try swapping the O'Malley slide back in. I'm hoping that I can sort of wean myself onto the O'Malley slide if the problem is simply the difference in weight distribution. But if it's something more than that, I can at least play the O'Malley/Bach mixed bone in the show, and worry about addressing the slide issue after we get back from Canada. Relieved at this discovery and happy with my new plan, I put everything away and messaged Miles to thank him for the advice, tell him what I'd learned, and let him know I'd be in touch in another week.

Back to the hotel where I sent Jameson a voice text detailing all of the above, then got dressed for the show and decompressed with some anime. I was still pretty full from our big lunch so had a light dinner before heading to the theatre. The evening show was just fine. I was a bit nervous about playing my half-and-half trombone, but didn't tell anyone what I was doing and I don't think anyone noticed at all, not even Tim sitting right next to me. And all of my notes came out! Phew. So this will work. I'm still feeling some sort of backpressure or weirdness, but it's a lot less, a lot more manageable. I'll try to pay attention because what I'm feeling could be lots of different things. 

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Friday:
One evening show and no plans except possibly laundry, possibly some sort of walk. 

Saturday & Sunday: Two shows each day. On Saturday there's an orchestra talkback between shows and I'm very excited to participate!

2028 Trip?

Oct. 22nd, 2026 10:17 pm
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Scanned the Bach piece for my singing teacher.

Fuck fuckity fuck. I overslept until 11 AM. My boss was out this morning though. I feel like crying.

Kamikaze cats are chasing each other.

Showered during lunch. Oops, I forgot that I wanted to do some laundry.

I’ve been spending a lot of money on Orthofeet shoes, but they’re so damn comfortable. The latest is that [personal profile] susandennis mentioned Orthofeet slippers, and I could use a pair of slippers. But I saw Orthofeet winter boots, and I REALLY could use that. So I bought them both. I need to get rid of my non-Orthofeet shoes. They have sandals too, but I want to lose weight on my ankles before getting a pair.

It just occurred to me that I could use my trekking poles for winter walking.

Submitted a grocery order.

I keep forgetting to drink water, so I installed a water reminder on my work computer. (I have one on my phone, but I don’t always look at the phone.)

I’m trying a new online planner at Monday.com. I’ll use it for a brain dump and to track progress. I need to see if they have a phone app. Yep. They have recurring tasks too. This should be helpful.

Had my first therapy appointment in a while. We talked about the trip and then a lot about GLP-1s. She recommended that I go for walks to help with the constipation. And eat more fiber. And drink more water. And eat raw veggies with a yogurt ranch dressing. (She’s sending me the recipe along with a link to a nutrition book that she really likes. I got the link and ordered the book.)

I’m feeling like studying languages after I feed the fur kids.

Zara is eating with gusto.

The people who gave the tour in Europe are posting their 2028 trips. There is a trip to Japan that I had been strongly considering before I signed up for the other trip. But it’s in March (?), so it would be shortly after the South Pacific cruise. I’m trying to keep my trips around a year apart. They also have a photo safari in Africa that I’m mulling over. But I had planned to go to Italy that year. Well, I have time to think it over. The fur kids would not be happy that I’m thinking of another trip.

I should add carrots and the ingredients for the ranch dressing to my shopping list. And maybe the ingredients for other snacks (done).

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